It's not you it's me......

Started by Sarge · 10 posts · 2,417 views

  1. #1
    This song really captures the crushing feeling when someone says that to you better than any other I have ever heard. Having been on both sides of that particular situation before, this song hit home.

    I have had the album for a couple of weeks courtesy of Nap$ter but tonight returning home from a meeting by myself was the first time I had truly been able to listen to the lyrics of this particular song. Anyway, they really made me feel sorry for the narrator and brought back some rather uncomfortable memories of some past relationships and the 20/20 hindsight that says "I wish I had handled that better". Any way,just thought I would share.....

    Music and singing is reminiscent of the Smiths or Morrissey but with a bit more of an edge. You know sort of melencholy singing with upbeat, jangly guitars....

    "Pretty Pathetic" by The Smoking Popes

    You should have heard me sobbing
    As I drove home that night
    Got into bed and stayed there
    For days I just laid there
    Having been permanently changed
    But we won't get into that now
    Let's take it from the start

    You should have seen me smiling
    Like the world was mine
    She used to call me baby
    Softly, sometimes
    But if I dwell on those days too long
    I feel like my life is over
    And that's no good
    So let's move on
    To the part where I begin to sense
    Her distance
    I panic and hold on tighter
    But that makes it worse
    How am I supposed to take it
    When she said:
    "This is something I'm going through,
    It's got nothing to do with you"

    I had a special evening all planned out
    Desperately determined to reignite
    Some spark between us
    She had to feel something for me
    A love as strong as ours
    Doesn't just go away
    You can't just turn it off
    Unless she was lying all those times
    But I don't think so
    I really don't think so
    The way she used to look at me
    Made me a thousand feet high
    The meaning of the word cool
    Not the same geek
    Who fumbled through his words that night

    The ugliest night
    I said some pretty awkward things
    I got the feeling that she felt sorry for me
    I should have seen it was hopeless and left it alone
    But I had to go on embarrassing myself

    "I miss what we had I need you so badly,
    I miss what we had I need you so badly"

    I must have sounded pretty pathetic, I know
    That's why I don't blame her for what she said
    But listen to me rambling
    We don't know each other that well
    But you're so easy to talk to
    I feel like I can tell you almost anything
    I hope I haven't put you off
    I have a tendency to do that
    Why don't I just be quiet?
  2. #2
    No one wants to touch this one huh?
  3. #3
    Yea, that's a tough one. Makes me glad I found a good woman who can put up with me, geek and all. :-)
  4. #4
    Atomm wrote:Yea, that's a tough one. Makes me glad I found a good woman who can put up with me, geek and all. :-)


    See I married a fellow techie, so she understands. However, it is sometimes a double edged sword, like I'll tell her I "need more ram" and she knows better.
  5. #5
    Turn the settings up to High on BFV and make her play a round, then she will understand that you are telling the truth, albeit, slightly fudged truth......
  6. #6
    Then I tell her a need a new videocard and she calls me a cheater
    ;-)
  7. #7
    Sarge, can you help Bubba out? Tell his wife what really happened to his video card so he can get a new one. :evil:
  8. #8
    😄 😄 😄 😄 😄 😄 😄

    I can just imagine that discussion.

    Hello Jessica. I know I don't know you that well, but I have something to tell you about Bubba and some of his "habits".....

    [Bubba then breaks Sarge into little pieces]

    Uhmmm, never mind. I think I'll go to the hospital.
  9. #9
    Atomm wrote:Sarge, can you help Bubba out? Tell his wife what really happened to his video card so he can get a new one. :evil:


    Yer all evil
  10. #10
    ROFL!

    But Bubba, I am just trying to help you out.....